Plus, take the “Should I Move or Stay?” Quiz to help you decide!
If you’re like many homeowners or potential buyers in the St. Louis area, you might be wondering: “Is now the right time to move?” Whether you’re upsizing for a growing family, downsizing into something more manageable, or just craving a change of scenery, the idea of moving can feel both exciting and overwhelming.
But good news: you don’t have to do it all at once.
As a Realtor who’s helped dozens of people right-size their lives, I’ve found that following a simple timeline takes a lot of the stress out of the process—and makes your decision feel a lot less overwhelming.
Here’s a simple 90-day move timeline (that can be adjusted longer or shorter depending on your needs), plus a fun quiz to help you figure out whether moving is right for you right now.
📆 The 90-Day Move Timeline (for Buyers and Sellers)
90 Days Out: Time to Reflect and Research
This is the “What if?” stage—and it’s important.
- Start asking the right questions:
- Do I need more space or less?
- Am I still happy with my location, commute, or home layout?
- Is my current home helping or holding me back?
- Research local home values and interest rates:
Even if you’re not ready to list or buy tomorrow, knowing what homes are selling for in your neighborhood or ideal area gives you a head start. - Connect with a local agent (👋 hi, that’s me!)
A no-pressure conversation can help you understand your options, timeline, and market trends in your part of St. Louis or Jefferson County.
60 Days Out: Start Preparing
If you’re thinking, “We might actually do this,” then it’s time to start prepping.
For Sellers:
- Walk through your home with fresh eyes. What needs a little TLC?
- Get a professional valuation or comparative market analysis (CMA).
- Create a decluttering plan—this gives you time to sort, donate, and pack slowly.
For Buyers:
- Get pre-approved. You’ll need this ready when it’s time to make an offer.
- Create your wish list. What features are a must-have vs. nice-to-have?
- Start casually viewing homes online or visiting open houses.
30 Days Out: Take Action
This is your “Go Time” window—where momentum really builds.
For Sellers:
- Finalize your listing price and timeline.
- Get listing photos done (or schedule professional ones—yes, I can help!)
- Deep clean, stage lightly, and start packing what you don’t use daily.
For Buyers:
- Narrow your search area and be ready to tour homes.
- Watch the market daily and be prepared to move quickly on a great fit.
- Keep an open mind—sometimes the “just right” home looks different than you imagined.
Not Sure If You’re Ready Yet?
You’re not alone. Some people know they want to move yesterday. Others aren’t sure if it’s time or if staying put might make more sense.
That’s exactly why I created this: Should I Move or Stay?” Quiz. Take this today to help you decide which way to go. Move or Stay

